Saturday, February 13, 2010

Oh,Its Valentine.-A subject


Subject,it can be anything. You,Me,Your mom,Her care,your ass or whatever. At the moment,its love.Everyone have their own defination.What i thought,it was when your soul belongs to that person. Yes cheesy but true. Its when you find a friend in that person and dont even think on how the other person would feel if you would have a running nose. Its when you think that even if there is no one for you,you have that one person who would be with you always.And If there are many people around you,you think they are not needed. Love,its never a suffocation,caring in whatever way and getting affected by small thing happening to "THAT" person is genuine thing. If it makes you feel asphyxiated,its not love. Its just a duty or a habbit. Might not be digested but sortve true.You feel a part of that person.
There may be other definations depending on what people think which are well knowned by me (atleast of some) and yes sometime love doesnt depend on the two people feeling for each other but about what other think about you and the other you.

But,well,Am flexible. Even if people wont agree but i am. And if the person I love has some other "concept/theory",I am ready for the change. and not to make her guilty but just for the sole reason. If you love someone and you see that person feeling suffocated by your love,Ventilation is required. And if you actually love anyone,just being with the person anyway makes it enough. And i will be always.

Theories never end.

People in this small world are too smart.They think by reading few books,watching few movies and a handful of experience will be enough to mmake their life a perfect one.Everything is known,everything is fixed. Its like a pattern and it has to be perfect.Well,that what people want atleast. The "natural course",its absent or just about to.Its all theories,its all practical,its just to to striving to hard to make everything perfect that you forget that it is the samll things which matters. And that actually strikes humanity too. A mutual understanding. People want their life to be perfect,to mould according to their wish,to have things according to me,to have space and some restrictions some times. People have their theories and they apply it on not only their life but also to people "attached" to them. And it makes it worse when they actually believes in it. Its simply the more you know what life is all about, more new chapters will be added. And at times theories you believe in will never apply to you,YOURSELF. Atleast that happened to me. Believed in "what you give,the person will treat you the same way" but what actually happened was that gacve someone so much that she was not able to reciprocate and made her feel suffocated. Yes. If you listen "You love me more than I do,and at time you should give me a damn" that is when your theory goes wrong. If ranting mathematical theorem was a tough task and went wrong at times,then howcome one apllied in life cant go wrong. So,play practical and be genuine. Get out of the 'imaginary' world.